Monday, April 29, 2013

Article 5/17 Letter of No Objection

Spent a large part of the day on the phone, sending emails, organizing and collecting my adoption paperwork. 

Here's what I found out today in speaking with the adoption specialist here at the embassy. 

There is something called an "Article 5/17 letter of no objection". It is a letter written by the embassy and addressed to the courts wherein it lays out the US citizenship law and that our child will indeed be granted citizenship automatically when our plane touches US soil. 

I had never heard of this letter. It is needed before the judge will grant our final adoption. I have made an appointment with the embassy, at which time I show all my docs so far (homestudy, i800 approval, i800a approval, article 16 letter, etc etc) and they determine whether everything is in order. If so, they issue me this letter to take to court. Problem is, the date for our final hearing has already been set. How do I get this letter to the judge before then? If I give it to him on May 30, then he will set a FOURTH court date for us to come back so he can grant the final adoption order. I've asked my attorney to file for some sort of modification hearing (she said it's called an affidavit here) which will allow us to add this paper to his file NOW (a month before we actually go to court) instead of waiting until then. 

But I'm not sure procedurally how things work here. 

I do know that we are literally getting really close to our fly-date, which is the third week of July. I really don't have extra weeks to spare for the judge to get educated about US citizenship law...So we will see... 


Sunday, April 28, 2013

Possible Citizenship Issues

There seems to be an issue lately with the two new Nairobi judges and their views/ignorance of the immigration laws of other countries.

Two of my friends lately have gotten to their court date, and the judge refused to go any further until they can prove the child will be  guaranteed citizenship in the parents' home country.
This is only happening to Canadian and US adopting families. Why? Because unlike the Europeans adopting families (who get their kids' European passports before leaving Kenya), our kids will not legally receive US citizenship until their feet touch US soil. Hence, we cannot obtain a US passport for our child here in Kenya. We have to obtain a Kenyan passport and go to the US embassy for a US visa stamp inside his Kenyan passport. Then when we can file for his US passport once we physically get back to the States.

The problem I have witnessed recently is that when my Canadian friends arrived at their third (and supposedly final) hearing, judge did NOT grant them a final judgment. He said he wanted proof that the kids would receive citizenship, and put the burden on this family to provide 250+ notarized pages of Canadian law and letters and documents. Will every family have to provide this information? If so, why did the judge wait until the final hearing to inform them of such? Why weren't they informed of this so they could have gotten the documents together beforehand? Keep in mind these folks have dropped their jobs, their homes, their entire lives to move to Kenya for a year to adopt these children. Now at the very last minute possible the new judge decides to add in more requirements.

This infuriates me on many, many levels. We Hague-party adopting-families have already been through months and months of notarizing and documentation at the beginning of the process.

For me, I was sort of thinking: "Okay, this is the first Canadian family that has adopted in years. Maybe the judge just needed a refresher course to ensure these Kenyan kids aren't stuck without citizenship to any country."

Fast forward one week.

I just found out that another friend of mine is having a similar issue. She is a US resident and adopting via the Kenyan resident path (because she has lived here over 3 years and can bypass the international route like we had to go through since we aren't here permanently). I know several folks in this same situation: Americans living here and adopting locally. There are a few different rules and hence a few different consequences. One of which being that you cannot go straight to the US to live for at least 2 years after the adoption is final. But the paperwork is much easier and the process is way less expensive. So it's definitely preferred for some folks.

So one of my friends went into court recently and should've been appointed her GAL at that first hearing. However, the judge said he wanted additional proof regarding the child's future-US citizenship. I don't know all the legal requirements, but a child in this situation (after going through the appropriate steps) would indeed be allowed US citizenship eventually. The US embassy here has a form letter they give to adopting families that explains this to the judge. Well, this form letter (that has always been used in the past) is now not good enough for the judge. The judge wants an additional letter from the US embassy basically reiterating what is in the form letter.  This has never been an issue in the past with the prior judges. I personally know of several kids that have adopted recently via this local-resident path and there were no issues.

I have said all along and I fully believe adoption is a spiritual battle (Unless of course kids are being put into same-sex marriage family. I'd love for a study to be done at some point to see the ease of their processes.)

Our next court date is over a month away. If I need to be gathering additional documentation regarding  the laws and rules of US Citizenship then I need TO DO IT NOW. I NEED TO KNOW NOW.

I've emailed my attorney a few times, and I'll put in an email to our stateside agency. We are literally flying out of here in July. I do not have time to gather and notarize additional documents from the States. I am so stressed out about this (literally, my blood pressure is up now just typing this) that I cannot seem to focus on anything else.

I'm not sure what my point is in typing all this out. I guess if you have read this far, then I ask you to please pray that these two Nairobi judges would get educated on these issues and do their jobs correctly. So that families stuck here don't have to pay the price in the end.

Saturday, April 27, 2013

Zac's Two-Year-Old Birthday Party

We celebrated Zac's birthday this week. He turns two in May, but we needed to have the party early. We had several dozen people in attendance. Lots of folks love this little boy! I wish my family could've been here for his very first birthday party!

We rented a bouncy castle. The kids had a blast. Zac is hanging out with one of his best buds.


The "Entertainment".

He kept the kids laughing!

Zac fell asleep soon after the party started. I think all the noise and people were a little too much for him.

Not too impressed by the singing and birthday cake. Me, on the other hand? I had to hold back my tears.

Getting the hang of it...

Friends signed his baby book.

Fun cards to put in his memory book.

Saturday, April 20, 2013

Leaving the courtroom after our second hearing yesterday.

Friday, April 19, 2013

Second Court Hearing


We had our second court hearing today and it went well. Very well, actually. We expected to be there until 5pm but we were heard in a little over 2 hours!!

Our 3rd and final hearing (where the judge gives his verdict) is set for May 30. Actually, at first the judge gave a date in June, and then I looked over at my attorney with wide eyes and said, "We leave this country in July!!". So she quickly said, "Your Lordship, the applicants will be sent to another post in July and need more time to get the child's passport and visa."

So he kindly gave us a sooner date. HOPEFULLY everything will be in order and he will grant the adoption at that time.  Closer, closer, closer!!!


Monday, April 15, 2013

I Love Having a Family

Hugging my sister.

Playing basketball with my brother.

Walking with my Daddy.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Second Court Hearing Date Scheduled

We have a date for our second court hearing. April 19. Woo-Hoo!
Our Children's Dept visit went well here at the house on March 21. The court took a month off. Then our GAL filed her report last week and our attorney secured a court date.
Whew.